I Ain't Paying for Sex


As I watching the Today Show and checking my email and online messages this morning, I got a very interesting message.

XXX: Yo sup man feeling your profile. Definitely want to get up with u if u are down hit my profile and get at me.

So I am like who the hell is this… I check his profile to see this attractive, 23yo kid who is an escort who is not interested in fem, fat or white men.

Me: Thanks for the shout man but I’m not looking and I don’t pay for sex

XXX: Aight cool jus gettin my hustle on.

So now escorts are recruiting customers? Escorts have requirements? I don’t quite get that but whatever works…



So this topic was still on my drive in today. What is the difference of someone sleeping with someone for free and sleeping with someone for compensation? Whether it is financial, a gift, emotional, or just companionship aren’t we all sleeping with someone for something?

Escorts are just having casual sex but getting paid for it… I actually think they may be the smarter ones. But I sill ain’t paying for sex!!

11 comments:

celeste said...

you make a good point... i guess it is a morality issue.

but a ho with standards that is interesting

The Captain said...

Morality? Well one can say that a prostitute is more noble than a gay escort who sleep with men.

celeste said...

umm whats the difference between an escort and a prositiute.

Anna said...

I've never heard of an escort that goes out searching for clients. I was always under the impression that escorts were more reticent than forward, but maybe that's just escorts of the past?

taylorSiluwé ..... said...

It's a bold new world. The internet is just like a neighborhood. Escorts will hit you up in person, so why not on the net?

j. brotherlove said...

I have no problem with the "sex-for-pay" concept. But in a city like Atlanta, who needs to pay?

I've run across those escorts with "no fat/no fem" requirements and they make me chuckle. That ain't a real hustler!

I classify them as kats who would sleep with you anyway. They're just trying to get some cash out the deal.

Cocoa Rican said...

I do believe that everyone get some type of compensation – emotional, financial and/or mental – from the folks we interact with intimately. I think setting a price and making the swap a clear-cut money for services is yet another boundary in the endless possibilities of boundaries that can be set in relationships (interactions). For the record, whether you walk the stroll and cat-call passers-by or use the current system of IMs, you’re recruiting Johns right? Well C. I agree with you pa - I ain’t payin’, ain’t nevah had to pay, ain’t got no intention of payin’. Sadly, on my date yesterday he paid for lunch, but I paid for the movie… so now I’m wonderin’, which one of us is the hustler? LOL :)

Ty said...

I never understood why so many people are up in arms about prostitutes/escorts. If someone tells you that they want money and you agree to pay it, that is on you two. You are two grown people making your decisions. And I have to agree, dating is not that far off. You go on dates and someone usually pays for dinner, a movie, or enjoying the company.

Omar Ramon said...

something in me just can't accept/demand money for sexual service. but if you let someone take you out and then y'all do the nasty and never hear from each other again...ain't it the same thang? see that's an occurence that happens often enough...at least with the escort they already know whas coming. lol
but yeah, seriously it's all about the social stigma put on things and the personal standards a person has. if you down..then get down. but do it over there...away from me.nasty ass LOL

Trent Jackson said...

sex for money.
blah!

sex was intended for relationship use only.

this is why there is a pad lock, borded windows and cobb webs on my coochie.

Dayne Avery said...

This may sound weird but I dont knock escorts. Like you said we are are essentially hoeing ourselves. The escorts and prostitutes just get money out of the deal. Im sure we can all recall a few encounters where the morning after we felt like sluts, the only thing missing was the money...lol MAKE THAT MONEY!!!